A group of graduates,
well established in their careers, were talking at a reunion and decided to go
visit their old university professor, now retired. During their visit, the conversation turned
to complaints about stress in their work and lives. Offering his guests hot chocolate, the
professor went into the kitchen and returned with a large pot of hot chocolate
and an assortment of cups - porcelain, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some
expensive, some exquisite - telling them to help themselves to the hot
chocolate.
When they all had a cup
of hot chocolate in hand, the professor said: 'Notice that all the nice
looking, expensive cups were taken, leaving behind the plain and cheap
ones. While it is normal for you to want
only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress.
The cup that you're drinking from adds nothing to the quality of the hot
chocolate. In most cases it is just more
expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink. What all of you really
wanted was hot chocolate, not the cup; but you consciously went for the best
cups... And then you began eyeing each other's cups.
Now consider this: Life
is the hot chocolate; your job, money and position in society are the
cups. They are just tools to hold and
contain life. The cup you have does not
define, nor change the quality of life you have. Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup,
we fail to enjoy the hot chocolate God has provided us. God makes the hot chocolate, man chooses the
cups. The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything that
they have. Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply.
Speak kindly. And enjoy your hot
chocolate.
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